"The Big Stick" by Tony Endelman is effectively the Glover bible. Tony has compiled all the great information Dr. Glover has ever taught in his 40-year career, from the No More Mr. Nice Guy book to his podcasts to his blog posts to his online courses.
Part 5 of the book addresses sex and sexuality, the topic that seems to trigger Nice Guys' toxic shame more than any other.
Many men find creative and unconscious ways to avoid the risk that is sexual intimacy. They isolate, don't approach women, or get involved with unhealthy women. These men will distract themselves from their sexual shame by spending hours on the internet looking at porn while ignoring the fact that it's keeping them from actually getting laid.
We'll discuss some tools for opening up a woman sexually and clearly communicating what you want. We'll learn about sexual problems, and how to get past the shame that comes with them.
Dr. Glover says that it's called a "sex drive" because it's supposed to drive you out of the house in search of a mate. Let's get out of our own way and learn how to get the sex you want with a healthy, integrated mindset!